Sunita Choudhary, originally from a small town in Haryana, was married at the age of 20 in Meerut. Her husband was a lawyer who also ran a school, where she later began teaching. Like many young brides, she entered marriage hoping to build a happy life with her husband. But the years that followed were far more difficult than she had imagined.“My father-in-law had served in the Army, but despite that disciplined background, my in-laws were never supportive or caring,” she recalls.
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The hardships began with her first pregnancy.“When my water broke, no one in the family came forward to help me. I was new to the town and didn’t even know the area. I remember walking alone through the streets with water dripping, desperately looking for a doctor. Two women saw my condition and guided me to a nearby clinic. The doctor examined me in what was essentially a garage and started a drip. Somehow, I informed my husband’s school, and he came and took me to a better hospital where I finally delivered my first child.“Things were no easier when she was expecting her second son.“My husband was in Roorkee at the time. I was in labour, lying there in unbearable pain, and there was no one beside me. My father-in-law called a lady from the neighbouring house, and she helped with the delivery. After giving birth at around 2 a.m., no one even asked if I had eaten anything. By 5 a.m., I got up myself, boiled milk in a bottle and fed my elder son.”Even during her third delivery, she says she received very little support.“My husband was there, but how much could one person do alone? After that pregnancy, I remained unwell for a long time. I suffered from typhoid and later tuberculosis, but got no support from my in-laws.”The family’s struggles only deepened. Her daughter was born weak, developed severe jaundice, and was later diagnosed with a hole in her heart. The family travelled across the country seeking treatment before finally finding a hospital where she underwent successful surgery. “Just when my daughter recovered, my husband started falling ill.”Doctors diagnosed him with cancer.“We had no medical insurance. I managed everything — the children’s education, tuitions, the school, household responsibilities and my husband’s treatment. I even left my daughter behind with the family and stayed in Pune with my husband during his surgery. Despite everything, I received no support from my in-laws.” Her husband recovered for some time, but fate had other plans.
Sunita Choudhary (Instagram)
“He met with an accident, his health deteriorated further because of multiple complications, and eventually he passed away.” His death shattered her.“It felt as though my entire world had collapsed. Itne saal ka saath sab chala gaya.” Years of companionship disappeared in a moment.Soon after came the COVID-19 pandemic. “I was physically exhausted, emotionally broken and financially shattered. People who had borrowed money from us never returned it. No one stood by me. There was absolutely no support.”There came a point when she questioned whether life was worth living. “One day, when I felt my life had ended, I made a decision. I would not end my life. I have always been a teacher. Teaching is what I know.”Instead of giving up, she picked up her late husband’s mobile phone. “I still have his phone with me.” She had always watched motivational videos and preferred focusing on positivity rather than negativity. “It struck me that if even my relatives couldn’t understand my pain and my story, why not share my experiences on social media? I was a teacher all my life and I wanted to share those with a larger family”She recorded a simple video and uploaded it. “It went viral.” Encouraged, she made another video. “That one became viral too.” Then came a video recorded at a metro station. “In that video, I said I would now live for myself.”The response was overwhelming. The video received millions of views, and several celebrities shared, liked and commented on it. “That was the beginning of a new chapter in my life.” Today, Sunita has around 252k followers on Instagram media and she says social media has given her something she never expected. “I found a new family on Instagram — a family of people who listen, encourage and stand by me.”The pain of losing her husband has never left her, but she has transformed that grief into strength, using her story to inspire thousands who may also be silently fighting their own battles.
